It’s that time: every single paper and project is due in the same week. It seems like the professors could coordinate their syllabuses a little bit better, but they never do. So what is a poor, hard-pressed college student to do? Continue reading
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Don’t Stress: Eating
You’ve heard of the freshman 15. Many of you have experienced the strange phenomenon, and I’m sure some of you haven’t. But let’s be honest: it’s hard to eat right in college. The on-campus cafeteria that you had to buy that really expensive meal-plan for only serves crap, and a lot of it. It’s much cheaper to eat fast-food, and much more convenient. For a lot of students, it’s the first time in their life Continue reading
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Don’t Stress: Cheating without cheating
Wanna know a secret? Talking with your professor can improve your grades.
Hear me out. This semester, I am taking a class that is miserable. I mean it absolutely stinks. My professor turns every other class into a work day, and the days when she “teaches”
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Don’t Stress: Roommate problems
Living with another human being for any length of time is almost impossible without some kind of conflict. Everyone is a little bit different, and those differences more often than not are either incompatible or just need to be addressed. Relationships of any type are built on trust and respect, and nourishing those things is crucial. Continue reading
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What’s your style?
Don’t be confused: this is not actually a fashion post. The styles I want to talk about are learning styles, and the reason why is that our education system can actually box you in and keep you from getting good grades if you let it. You can let it do this to you if you simply don’t know yourself. Continue reading
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4 ideas for having a better day
Ok, so we’re college students. Life can get pretty routine: get up, go to class, study, go to class again, come home, eat, nap, watch TV, eat, play video games, study, go to bed. Something like that. Maybe you eat more, maybe you talk with your friends in between classes, maybe you work some days (or everyday), maybe you hit the town some nights, or go to the bar regularly. Whatever your routine is, we all have one.
For a lot of us, life can be boring, or it can be stressful, and most of us feel tired constantly.
This can be because of extremely full schedules, bad time management, poor eating, too much caffeine or trouble sleeping.
Personally, I’m tired of being tired. Continue reading
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The art of multitasking
Juggling projects and deadlines is something we’ve all been doing for a long time. If you’re like me, it can be very overwhelming sometimes, especially when you are thrown into new environments (like new schools or universities, or even just new living spaces, like new dorms or new apartments).
Whether you are transitioning from high-school to college life, college life to the working world or to graduate school, I wanted to share a trick I’ve learned. I want to call it the hierarchy of focus.
We all have a ton of stuff we need to do: papers to write, books to read, projects to plan and tests to take. There’s also things like email, Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, Reddit, WordPress, Blogger, YouTube, MySpace (no, it’s not dead yet) and your friends and family, whether they are physically present to hang with or whether they are texting/calling you. There is a lot to do.
Things get overwhelming fast when you try to do it all at once.
But take a second and think: what needs to happen now? For me, my research paper due on Friday, which takes a lot of focus, is my most pressing at the moment. So I make everything else secondary and try to just work on my paper. I can crank on it for 30 minutes, an hour, 2 hours…each of us have different work styles and attention spans, so what’s a good time for you?
There are other things however, like lighter assignments that don’t require as much focus, that I can lump together with things like Facebook and Twitter and listening to music into my secondary focus group. I can do all these things sort of at the same time and still be productive.
That’s how things break down for me, but how do things work for you?
Know your boundaries and what you can and can’t do when it comes to your attention span and your ability to multitask. It’s better to focus on one task and do it well in a shorter amount of time than to try to do everything at once, and do work that is sub-optimal.
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Less (now) is more
Procrastination. We all do it. Or we’ll do it later (haha…come on, how could I not make that joke??).
A lot of us function (and can sometimes function pretty well) in the state of crisis brought on by cramming, and sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.
But doing a couple things can help you study more effectively and generally keep your stress levels down which will help you focus better throughout the semester.
Spread, not dread
Do your work throughout the week, a little at a time, instead of cramming.
Cramming hardcore right before a test or a due date is neither a pleasant nor effective way to learn.
Instead of reading for 4 hours straight the night before (or at 2am), read for 30-40 minutes here and there a week or so before you have to have the reading done. Take notes or do whatever helps you retain the information you’re taking in while you read. That way, before the test you can just read your notes or look at your flashcards and feel good about what you’ve read.
Make a weekly and daily to-list
This helps me see visually what I have to do, and also gives me peace of mind when I see that I’m done with what I have to do today.
When I know I’m done, I can have fun instead of being stressed about what I need to do.
For those that tend to party harder than you study, this helps keep you organized so you don’t fall behind.
Having a good perspective on your workload can be the difference between a stressful day and a pleasant day. Know what you need to do and know what you don’t need to do. Why worry about things you don’t need to worry about?
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